Fencing has been my passion since 2008 when I first picked up a foil at a small YMCA gym. This sport has become part and parcel with who I am, guiding me through countless experiences in middle school, high school, and as a varsity athlete in college. Even after moving away from that vibrant Northeast fencing hub, my dedication never wavered. I've driven through countless dark nights from St. Louis all just because I wanted more time on that piste.
As a nonbinary person, fencing has provided me with a unique perspective on life. I've fenced in boys' events, been a part team at Vassar College, and even competed in USA Fencing's men events. Despite some policymakers' resistance, I'm set on competing in women events starting from this upcoming season.
Transitioning while competing: A balancing act
Since November 2024, I've been on hormone replacement therapy, starting estrogen as part my transition. USA Fencing requires those transitioning from male-to-female categories, like me, undergo a year-long hormone therapy before entering a new category. Thus, I've continued competing in men events during this period.
This journey hasn't been without its hurdles. Dysphoria has been a persistent companion, magnified by being deadnamed and misgendered with terms like “he,” “him,” and “sir,” particularly while I'm coaching. At a tournament in January, I was so affected by this dysphoria I almost withdrew in mid-match. The effects that estrogen and progesterone have on my body has changed my speed and endurance, impacting my performance even with regular training.
Finding support in my fencing community
Fencing provides these beautiful moments where I can forget about gender identity and just enjoy. Training brings me joy, especially with my best friend — who doubles as my coach — constantly cheering me on. I'm grateful The OUT Foundation sponsors me, helping with nutrition and training costs. Plus, my gym supports Type 1 diabetes research, making it feel like a home where I can be myself.
Fencing allows me train with people from all walks life. Before transitioning, I often fenced alongside women Olympians, Paralympians, and Veteran World Team members.
Our American fencing community embraces inclusivity, especially toward queer folks. USA Fencing recognizes my chosen name, and I've even sat on panels discussing what it means be queer in this sport. Our Senior Manager Diversity, Equity, Inclusion & Belonging has extended women's-only coaching mentorship programs nonbinary individuals. This openness permeates our league, even when critics from outside try say otherwise.
Coaching and future dreams
Coaching at my Massachusetts club has been so fulfilling. I love creating an inclusive space LGBTQIA+ youth can find belonging and support. In 2024, I proudly coached one my athletes overcoming regional challenges win silver at Veteran World Championships in Dubai.
Though I still compete using my deadname, watching Team USA succeed and legendary trans fencer Liz Kocab secure her ninth-world title was a thrill. It felt like a victory enabling change.
In April, I defended my thesis on trans fencers and passed my exams, becoming first out transgender fencing master. I'm focused on nurturing talent across diverse backgrounds, and Five Points Fencing Academy feels like an ideal place make that happen.
While my competitive future remains uncertain, I train as though I'll compete again. I've also dived powerlifting, thinking about trying a trans-inclusive meet.
Whether I continue competing or pivot solely coaching, I'm hopeful about what lies ahead. Transitioning has been an incredible joy, and I'm committed supporting others on their own paths self-discovery and empowerment.
Nova Gregory (they/them) lives and coaches Hanover, Mass. They've coached medalists North American Cups and World Championships and are first out transgender fencing master. Follow them on Instagram @supernovagregory and @coachnovafencing.
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