In a recent development, federal authorities have charged a transgender woman with kidnapping after she allegedly left the United States with her 10-year-old child, traveling to Cuba. The case, which has captured significant media attention, raises complex issues surrounding transgender rights and international custody disputes.
According to an affidavit filed by FBI Special Agent Jennifer Waterfield in U.S. District Court for the District of Utah, the child involved in this case is a “biological male who identifies as female.” The child’s parents, who are divorced, share custody in Cache County, Utah.
The affidavit details that on March 28, the child was meant to travel to Calgary, Alberta, for a camping trip with her transgender mother, Rose Inessa-Ethington, Rose's partner Blue Inessa-Ethington, and Blue’s three-year-old child. However, the planned trip deviated significantly when the group flew from Vancouver, British Columbia, to Mexico City the following day, later reaching Havana, Cuba, on April 1 via Mérida, Mexico.
After their arrival in Canada, the child contacted her biological mother. The custody agreement required that Rose Inessa-Ethington return the child to her former spouse by April 3, which did not happen.
The affidavit indicates that interviews with the child’s family members raised concerns about the child's well-being, alleging that the child’s gender identity could have been influenced by Rose Inessa-Ethington. There were also fears that the child might undergo gender reassignment surgery in Cuba, a country known for its national health care system that offers free sex-reassignment surgeries since 2008. However, access to such procedures for minors in Cuba remains a subject of debate and limited availability.
Authorities also discovered a note in the Inessa-Ethingtons' residence with instructions from a mental health therapist in Washington, D.C., regarding gender-affirming medical care for children, along with directions to transfer $10,000 to the therapist.
A Utah judge on April 13 ordered Rose Inessa-Ethington to immediately return the child to her former spouse, who was granted sole custody. The FBI was able to locate the Inessa-Ethingtons in Cuba, and with assistance from Cuban authorities, the family was deported back to the U.S.
The U.S. Attorney’s Office for the District of Utah has charged the couple with International Parental Kidnapping. They were brought before the court in Richmond, Virginia, with proceedings expected to continue in Salt Lake City.
The child has been reunited with her biological mother, and First Assistant U.S. Attorney Melissa Holyoak expressed gratitude to law enforcement for their quick action in resolving the situation.
This case unfolds amid heightened tensions between the U.S. and Cuba, as well as recent changes in U.S. policies regarding transgender rights. Former President Donald Trump’s executive orders limited federal recognition of genders to male and female and prohibited federally-funded gender-affirming care for minors under 19.
Additionally, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld a Tennessee law in the Skrmetti decision, which bans gender-affirming care for minors, adding another layer of complexity to cases involving transgender youth custody and care.
In Cuba, Mariela Castro, daughter of former President Raúl Castro, has been a prominent advocate for LGBTQ+ issues. Her role as director of Cuba’s National Center for Sexual Education highlights the ongoing struggles for access to medical procedures and the broader human rights implications related to gender identity.
As the legal proceedings continue, this case serves as a poignant reminder of the intersection between personal rights, parental responsibilities, and evolving societal norms surrounding gender identity.
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