On the day that should have been a celebration of new beginnings, Kayde Martin, a transgender teenager from Iowa, spent his 18th birthday at the state capitol. Instead of celebrating, he stood before lawmakers, passionately pleading for the preservation of his civil rights.
In a moving and emotional speech, Kayde began, "Good morning, my name is Kayde Martin, and today I speak not just for myself, but for many other transgender youths in Iowa. I was born on February 27, 2007. Today is my 18th birthday. I stand before you fighting for the same basic civil rights that every Iowan deserves by humanely asking you to vote against this bill."
Kayde was addressing a proposed law aimed at repealing civil rights protections for transgender individuals, a move that would make Iowa the first state to reverse such protections for a previously safeguarded group. Despite his heartfelt plea, the law was eventually passed, marking a significant setback for the transgender community in Iowa.
Thousands joined Kayde in protest, voicing their opposition to the bill. Despite the large public outcry, the Republican-dominated legislature moved swiftly to pass the law, citing the need to protect women and children in gendered spaces and sports teams. However, studies consistently show that cisgender men and inadequate athletic funding pose far greater threats to women than transgender women do.
Kayde expressed his concerns about the state's focus, saying, "It deeply troubles me that after 18 years of living here with my family, attending school, working, this is the focus of our state." He highlighted his plans to attend the University of Northern Iowa in the fall, where he hopes to live independently and free from discrimination.
As a transgender youth, Kayde voiced concerns about the selective advocacy for women's rights, questioning, "Why do women’s rights only seem to be defended when it is used to be against the transgender community? Where’s the same outcry when it comes to women’s choices in their own bodily autonomy?"
Raised in a Christian household, Kayde invoked his faith to emphasize the importance of love and respect for all individuals. "A good Christian knows that only the lord is one to judge," he remarked. "Nobody knows the heavenly father’s plan." He continued, "I want to be able to be the person I was meant to be, and as the person that God knows me to be. Please, don’t take my rights away simply because you disagree with who I am."
The bill's passing will allow discrimination against transgender and gender-nonconforming people in areas such as housing, employment, and credit. Efforts by Democratic senators to amend the bill to maintain these protections were rejected. This led to accusations that the bill's true aim was not protection but discrimination.
State Rep. Aime Wichtendahl, Iowa’s only transgender legislator, strongly criticized the legislation, stating its purpose is to "erase us from public life and to stigmatize our existence, to make our existence illegal, to force us back into the closet." She added, "The authors of these bills wish us every harm."
Despite the setback, Kayde remains hopeful for a future where understanding and civil discussion prevail over division. He concluded his speech by expressing hope that those who refuse to understand can "agree to disagree like civil people instead of targeting each other and avoid becoming more divided as a state."
As Kayde and many others continue to fight for their rights, the conversation around transgender rights remains a pivotal issue in Iowa and across the nation. The impact of such legislative decisions will continue to resonate, influencing the lives of countless individuals seeking acceptance and equality.
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