Trailblazing All Black Celebrates Unique Wedding with His Partner

In a heartwarming story that has captivated fans around the world, Campbell Johnstone, the first openly gay player from New Zealand’s revered All Blacks rugby team, has once again made headlines. This time, it’s not for his groundbreaking sports career, but for the celebration of his wedding with husband Ben Thomson.

A Historic Moment in Rugby

Two years ago, Campbell Johnstone etched his name in the annals of rugby history by becoming the first former All Black to publicly come out as gay. At that time, he was in a committed relationship with Ben Thomson, who he had been dating for several years. Fast forward to today, and the couple has taken their love to new heights with a wedding that joyously defied convention.

The couple celebrated their union in the picturesque town of Oxford, near Christchurch on New Zealand’s South Island. Surrounded by friends, family, and a few rugby legends, the wedding was a beautifully orchestrated event that reflected the couple's unique style and love for one another.

Memorable Wedding Highlights

Johnstone and Thomson’s wedding was a delightful blend of tradition and personal flair. The ceremony took place last month, but the stunning photos have only recently been shared, lighting up social media and capturing the public’s imagination.

One of the most talked-about aspects was their dramatic arrival at the venue—via helicopter, no less—piloted by Richie McCaw, a two-time Rugby World Cup winner and former teammate of Campbell. Such an entrance set the tone for an event filled with surprises.

The couple invited their guests to participate in a lighthearted vote to decide which surname they would adopt as a married couple. The former prop, Campbell Johnstone, emerged victorious in the friendly contest, much to Ben’s amiable chagrin. “I’m pretty competitive,” Ben joked, “but I’m happy with the names!”

Adding to the whimsical nature of their celebration, Ben wore a tuxedo with an intricate lacework design on the back, an idea inspired by Pinterest and brought to life by a local designer. Their dessert choice also turned heads—a grand mille-feuille pastry replaced the traditional wedding cake.

Their first dance broke away from convention as well, as friends and family joined them in recreating the flashmob dance from the popular Netflix series “The Perfect Couple.”

A Private Start to Public Joy

In a surprising revelation, Campbell and Ben shared that they had actually wed in secret the previous October. A videographer captured their intimate ceremony, and the footage was later screened for guests at the wedding party, adding a touching layer to their public celebration.

Reflecting on his journey, Campbell said, “Coming out was such a relief. I was happy I could be who I am without the worry of the media spotlight.” His story has resonated with many, inspiring fellow athletes to embrace their identities. “Being able to share our wedding photos, we hope it spreads joy and confidence among LGBTQ+ individuals,” added Ben.

As rugby remains a national obsession in New Zealand, the presence of other rugby greats at their wedding, including Corey Flynn and Leon MacDonald, further solidified the message of inclusivity within the sport.

Embracing Diversity in Rugby

“Rugby is all about respect,” Campbell emphasized. “When you join a team, you’re part of a family, no matter your background or who you love.” He hopes that his openness will make it easier for future players to be true to themselves.

The couple’s story is a beacon of hope and possibility for young athletes grappling with their identities. Campbell’s advice to them? “Be happy in your own skin and take each step on your own terms, whether it’s coming out or getting married.”

With their wedding photos and the inspiring journey they represent, Campbell and Ben continue to shine as role models, proving that love and authenticity can indeed change the game.