Millwall FC's Premier League Dreams and its LGBTQ+ Team's Journey

On a bright afternoon in south-east London, Millwall Romans celebrated a triumphant 5-0 victory in their cup final, hosted at a football ground capable of seating 20,000 spectators. Although the stands at The Den saw a modest crowd of around 100 supporters, mostly family and friends, the significance of the event was not diminished.

LGBTQ-inclusive teams like the Romans seldom have the opportunity to play in such significant venues. Next season, this stadium could become a Premier League arena, as Millwall FC is in the running for the playoffs, eyeing an opportunity for promotion.

While a return to the top tier (last achieved in the 1989/90 season) isn't guaranteed, the club has been on an upward trajectory. Much of their progress is attributed to the Berylson family, whose wealth comes from the American movie theater industry.

Beyond financial backing, Millwall's strong community ties contribute to its growth. The Romans are an integral part of this diverse community network, which strengthens with every passing year.

Millwall Romans: Proud Partners of Millwall FC

Paul Loding, the player-chair of the Romans, came out as gay in his 20s after years of secrecy, which had dampened his enthusiasm for the game. Joining the Romans revived his passion for football. Loding was with the team even before they became affiliated with the Millwall Community Trust (MCT) five years ago.

The Romans are one of the four LGBTQ football teams in the UK that have a partnership with a professional club. The others include Bristol City Panthers, Newcastle Panthers, and Charlton Invicta.

"We're very fortunate," says Loding. "At times, we have around 35 players attending our free open training sessions, made possible by MCT's support. This support allows us to welcome more LGBTQ individuals back into football or to help them start playing for the first time. And for those who've been with us for a while, there's noticeable growth not only in their football skills but in their confidence as well."

Even players who don't identify as LGBTQ enjoy the inclusive atmosphere, with many allies playing in the Romans' squads, which include a B team called Millwall Pride. The team recently secured a 3-1 victory in the London Unity League final.

Building Friendships and Confidence Through Football

For LGBTQ individuals growing up, making friends can be challenging. Clubs like the Romans offer a supportive environment to foster team spirit and connect with people who share similar experiences. "It's still crucial to have these clubs," Loding emphasizes.

Football environments have evolved, though challenges remain. While attending games in his youth, Loding often heard homophobic chants, and although such incidents are less frequent now, they still affect young gay and bi men today.

Recently, Millwall fans directed a derogatory chant at Ben Chilwell during an FA Cup match. The club condemned the act and highlighted their support for the Romans as evidence of their commitment to inclusivity beyond mere zero-tolerance policies.

Visibility of LGBTQ-friendly teams can aid in shifting perceptions. The Romans' involvement in the annual MCT Community Day allowed them to engage with Millwall supporters, further demonstrating the club's inclusive ethos.

Looking Ahead: New Opportunities and Initiatives

As a recognized part of Millwall's community initiatives, the Romans have received several accolades, including a marketing campaign commendation. Collaborating with global creative agencies has helped raise their profile and promises new initiatives in the future.

Furthermore, the Romans are set to participate in the EuroGames, a continental LGBTQ multisports event in Lyon, France. These opportunities — from traveling abroad to playing in a professional setting — are still rare in British soccer. Loding hopes other clubs will adopt similar models.

He also wishes to reach more young players in London who may hesitate to play football because of their identity. "Not enough people know we exist," Loding admits, adding that the Romans offer a welcoming space for all LGBTQ individuals without judgment.

As Millwall's first team prepares for a crucial match against Burnley, the entire club dreams of Premier League promotion. "How amazing would that be," Loding muses. Though a long shot, the notion of an out gay player-chair celebrating multiple victories at The Den is no longer just fantasy football.