Right from its opening credit, “This film was inspired by all those who wronged us. You know who you are,” British film, *Departures*, grabs your attention. It pulls you in with a bold promise: a story that weaves humor and deep, thought-provoking themes, creating an engaging vibe straight away.*****************************************************
The story takes off at an airport where Benji, played by Lloyd Eyres-Morgan, runs across Jake, who David Tag brings splendidly alive. Their paths lead them straight down Amsterdam's vibrant queer scene. Sparks fly, no doubt, but their budding relationship isn't all sunshine. Jake's inner battles and emotional walls present serious hurdles.*****************************
Jake's struggle with shame often pushes Benji away, leaving him heartbroken. To cope, Benji turns toward substances and fleeting relationships. The film doesn't hold back in diving deep—showcasing how these experiences, while relatable, can take a serious toll on mental health. Yet, it does so with a sprinkle, or sometimes a dash, or humor, drawing you in and keeping you there.*************************************
Serious stuff aside, *Departures* keeps you laughing just when things start feeling too heavy. Co-director Neil Ely draws from his own life, admitting, "I used humor as my shield," showing just how healing laughter can be. Still, they manage a delicate balance, ensuring comedy doesn't overshadow those serious moments that need a deeper dive.***************
Directors Lloyd and Neil don't just tell a story—they live it, being gay men in today's modern age. Their personal touch brings a raw, relatable depth that breathes life and authenticity, creating characters you'll find yourself caring about.*************
At its heart, *Departures* bravely takes on toxic, soul-crushing relationships common in LGBTQ+ circles. Lloyd and David bring their own experiences, making these struggles not just seen but felt, adding layers that are as complicated as they are real.*************
Liam Boyle's character, Kieran, shines as a beacon, showing Benji there's a different path. Unlike Jake, Kieran represents healing—a walk toward kindness and empathy that promises growth and new beginnings.*************
What you see on screen? It's backed by off-screen bonds. The friendship between David and Lloyd translates beautifully, adding layers you can't fake. A committed production crew, including an intimacy coordinator, ensured comfort and authenticity were never compromised.*************
For David Tag, stepping in as a queer character was a first. Though he felt some jitters at first, he quickly discovered that relationships, at their core, transcend labels. Through Jake, David explores abandonment and how past scars leave their mark on our present.*************
Reflecting on LGBTQ+ cinema's evolution, Lloyd acknowledges its journey from niche interest toward mainstream acceptance. Films like *Departures* are leading this change by telling stories that are both specific and touch everyone.*************
Catching *Departures* at BFI Flare: London LGBTQ+ Film Festival will be a treat. It's a brilliant blend, mixing drama and humor in a modern queer film. Let's hear your thoughts! Dive in and share your views, but let's keep it kind and respectful. We're all here together.
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