Exploring Relationship Fulfillment: A Comparative Study on Monogamous and Non-Monogamous Partnerships

Recent studies shed light on satisfaction levels in various types, uncovering that folks in non-monogamous relationships are just as happy as their monogamous counterparts. A detailed study published in *The Journal Of Sex Research* took a closer look at 35 studies from both sides across Europe and America, involving 24,489 people from different relationship backgrounds. Despite societal judgment, these findings suggest non-monogamous relationships are every bit as fulfilling as monogamous ones.

Understanding relationship satisfaction levels

The study delves deep, exploring different relationship setups, including those in both monogamous and non-monogamous pairings within heterosexual and LGBTQ+ communities. Non-monogamy was split further between open relationships—where partners have physical interactions with others—and polyamorists pursuing multiple romantic or emotional bonds. In a surprise twist against societal beliefs, satisfaction levels were pretty much equal across all these relationship types.

Joel Anderson, leading this insightful study, called out what he dubs as “monogamy-superiority myth.” This idea claims monogamous setups naturally provide more satisfaction, intimacy, commitment, passion, and trust. It survives thanks in large part due stereotyping and media portrayals that misconstrue non-monogamous partnerships.

Addressing stigma and misconceptions about non-monogamy

While this study celebrates non-monogamous relationship fulfillment, it doesn't ignore their unique challenges. Non-monogamy often faces societal stigma and discrimination, including biases from healthcare and mental health experts. These issues echo those faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, further compounded by underrepresentation in mainstream media.

An eye-opening study shared in *Personality & Social Psychology Bulletin* showed that individuals in consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships often find themselves on receiving ends with negative responses, like discomfort, disapproval, and devaluation from others. Such societal pressures fuel psychological distress among those partaking in non-monogamy.

Breaking down non-monogamy stereotypes

Despite these hurdles, many in non-monogamous relationships are on a mission—to educate and foster acceptance. They strive tirelessly against stereotypes framing non-monogamy as immoral or untrustworthy. These efforts are vital in countering that “halo” effect, which wrongly heralds monogamous relationships as morally superior.

Non-monogamous individuals often report seeking personal growth, shedding internalized mono-norms, and finding supportive communities. Their resolve stays strong, driven by a belief in consensual non-monogamy's perks outweighing societal challenges.

The growing movement toward non-monogamous relationships

Even with societal barriers, non-monogamous relationships are gaining visibility. A 2017 study indicated roughly 4-5% North Americans currently explore CNM relationships, with nearly 22% having experienced it once. Plus, about 12% consider some CNM form as their ideal relationship structure.

As understanding and acceptance around diverse relationship styles grows, I hope societal views will evolve. With continued education and advocacy, perhaps stigma around non-monogamous relationships will lessen, freeing individuals up in pursuing fulfilling connections without worrying societal judgment.

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