Evan Wolfson Reflects on a Decade of Marriage Equality and the Road Ahead

Marking a Decade Since Marriage Equality Became Law: A Look Back at Obergefell v. Hodges

June 26 marks a significant day in history as we celebrate ten years since a pivotal moment in LGBTQ+ rights. It was on this day that Obergefell v. Hodges was decided by our Supreme Court, opening doors nationwide by legalizing same-sex marriage. For many in America, it was a life-altering victory, affirming their right not just in law books but in life.

A milestone in LGBTQ+ history

Evan Wolfson, who founded Freedom To Marry, shares his thoughts and perspectives on this landmark victory. With Jim Obergefell, he penned a foreword in “LOVE: The Heroic Stories Of Marriage Equality,” a book that reveals brave personal tales and hurdles faced by those championing marriage rights.>

Current political climate and its challenges

Today, there're whispers and worries about whether marriage equality might face future challenges. Back in 2017, an interviewer asked Wolfson, “Is gay marriage safe?” His answer was both reassuring and realistic, offering a glimpse at his forward-thinking mindset.>

Wolfson: insights then and now

“Anything can happen, so don't get complacent,” Wolfson advised. Despite tricky political winds, he stressed that other pressing issues deserve our attention too. “Even though elections seemed disastrous, we're off track as a nation,” he expressed, highlighting solidarity's role.>

He pointed out that marriage equality wasn't just a courtroom win. “We swayed public opinion—up from a mere 27% support during Hawaii arguments, reaching 63% by 2015,” he shared. This societal shift was hard-earned, not fleeting. “Over a million same-sex couples married in America, with each union supported by family, friends, and allies.”>

Recently asked if he'd changed his mind, Wolfson had a firm answer: “So far, I stand by everything I said.” He emphasized marriage equality's resilience, backed by bipartisan support and deeply rooted public sentiment.>

Looking ahead at marriage equality's future

Wolfson remains hopeful about marriage equality sticking around, saying it's now difficult—if not impossible—to reverse. Even former opponents have turned their attention elsewhere.>

“Other communities and values face more immediate threats. By standing together and pushing forward, we'll protect our rights too,” he encouraged. While setbacks loom in some minds, Wolfson highlights that action, not worry, safeguards us. “Worry doesn't protect us. Action does.”>

He acknowledged that rights can roll back, citing Dobbs' ruling that overturned Roe v. Wade. But even if such a reversal came, he reassured us that President Biden's Respect For Marriage Act provides a safety blanket. “Any marriage legally performed in one state must be recognized nationwide,” he elaborated.>

He pointed out that this act passed with Republican support, showcasing widespread backing as a protective buffer.>

Standing firm amid broader threats

Wolfson also spoke about broader democratic threats, urging political action and reform. “None are totally safe from this regime's assaults and corruption. That's why we've got reclaim power—vote in better lawmakers, fix courts, uphold law, democracy, and pluralism,” he rallied.>

He addressed struggles facing trans folks, recognizing their current stage as more vulnerable. Yet, he's optimistic about their capacity—to grow, adapt, and triumph.>

In conclusion, Wolfson underscored collective action: “Our generation must act now. Let's respond together with purpose and solidarity, safeguarding people and values dear.”>

Wolfson's reflections aren't just about looking back—they call us forward, urging continued equality and justice battles. “LOVE: The Heroic Stories Of Marriage Equality” stands as a testament within those stories, teaching what passion, resolve, and unity can achieve.>