Countess Luann de Lesseps Opens Up About Her First Same-Sex Experience

Countess Luann de Lesseps, a well-known figure from "Real Housewives of New York City," has candidly shared her story regarding her first romantic encounter with a woman.

De Lesseps, who gained fame through the popular reality series before stepping away in 2021, offered insights into this personal experience while guest appearing on the "Humble Brag" podcast, hosted by Crystal and Cynthia. Cynthia Bailey, known from "Real Housewives of Atlanta," is one of the hosts of the show.

During a lighthearted segment playing “Eff, Marry, Kill,” the topic arose of same-sex relationships, prompting de Lesseps to open up about her past experience. She revealed that this encounter occurred just a couple of summers ago, a revelation that piqued the interest of listeners.

"She was really more interested in me," the Countess recalled. She described how a woman took the initiative and made the first move. "She came toward me," de Lesseps said, recounting the experience with a sense of intrigue and amusement.

When asked what motivated her to embrace this new experience, de Lesseps explained, "I was like, ‘You know what? I’d like to experience everything at least once.’" Her openness to exploring her sexuality, even if just once, highlights her adventurous spirit and willingness to embrace new experiences.

Embracing New Experiences

Despite her willingness to explore, de Lesseps remains clear about her romantic preferences. "I’m still all about the boys," she clarified, noting that the encounter was a unique opportunity she chose to seize. "I did it just because she really wanted me, and I thought, ‘You know, when am I ever going to have that experience like that again?’"

The experience left a memorable impression on both parties involved. "I showed her the time of her life," de Lesseps remarked with a smile, suggesting that the encounter was positive and enjoyable.

Beyond her reality TV fame, de Lesseps is also recognized for her work in cabaret. Since 2018, she has been actively involved in writing and performing her own cabaret show, "Marry F Kill." This show has attracted considerable attention, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community, where she has found a devoted audience.

Luann’s Cabaret Journey

In discussing her cabaret work, de Lesseps shared her insights into what makes her show a success. "To put it plainly, the gays are obsessed," she said, acknowledging the enthusiastic support from the LGBTQ+ community.

She described her cabaret show as a vibrant mix of pop culture, comedy, and fashion. "It’s like a big sing-along," she explained, emphasizing the interactive and engaging nature of her performances. Her ability to connect with fans through music and shared cultural experiences is a testament to her appeal and charisma.

De Lesseps reflected on how she chooses songs for her shows, selecting music that resonates with her audience. "I pick a song that I know my fans will love because they grew up watching me, and their mothers were listening to the same music that I listen to," she said. This thoughtful approach ensures that her shows are not only entertaining but also deeply personal and nostalgic for many attendees.

"It’s really fun," de Lesseps concluded, summarizing the spirit of her cabaret show and her approach to entertainment. Her foray into the world of cabaret and her willingness to share her personal experiences, including her same-sex encounter, showcase her as a multifaceted performer who continues to captivate audiences.

Through her openness and vibrant performances, Countess Luann de Lesseps remains a beloved figure both on and off the stage, continually engaging with her audience in new and exciting ways. Her story reminds us of the importance of embracing new experiences and being true to oneself.