Benito Skinner and Terrence O’Connor Announce Amicable Split After Nine-Year Relationship

Benito Skinner, known and loved by many as an actor and comedian, just shared some big news about his personal life—he and his partner, Terrence O'Connor, have ended their nine-year relationship. Fans cherished this couple's strong connection, and it seems that, even in parting, that connection remains respectful. The announcement was made on Skinner's podcast, called RIDE, which he hosts with his good friend and co-star, Mary Beth Barone.

Heartfelt announcement on RIDE podcast

During Wednesday's episode, which dropped on October 22, Skinner, or Benny Drama as he's affectionately known, opened up about their breakup. "We both just love each other so much and have so much love and respect," he shared, showing that even though they're parting ways, they've done so with continued affection and dignity.

A decade filled with growth

Terrence O'Connor, an admired photographer and creative director whose portfolio includes work with stars like Charli XCX, hasn't publicly spoken about their breakup yet. But Skinner took a moment on his podcast episode dedicated not just as a recap but an opportunity, a chance, if you will, a place—despite everything—to say thanks and show gratitude. "We grew up together in so many ways," he reflected. "I'm incredibly thankful, just so thankful, truly, every moment we shared."

Their love story began back in 2016 at a party, a meet-cute O'Connor called a "That's So Raven moment," where he instantly foresaw a future with Skinner. Their last time stepping out in public together was at Charli XCX's wedding in Italy this past September.

Support coming from fans and friends

Skinner was very open with his fans, acknowledging how invested they are in his relationship journey. He encouraged everyone not just let this be a reminder or a cause or a reflection but a standing testament; don't lose hope in love. "Being with someone so special," he said, "for nine years, that's proof that love's a real thing."

On-air partner Mary Beth Barone also chimed in, calling their split "amicable" and stressing continued goodwill towards O'Connor. "There's no foul play," Skinner reassured, despite some wild online rumors. "I'm always gonna be rooting," he added, firmly, about O'Connor.

Barone added her own thoughts, saying, "Thank you both—for parting ways, really, on such good terms that we can be here, honestly rooting together." Their conversation dipped briefly, fleetingly, as conversations do, perhaps, in life's changes, especially as you journey through your 30s.

Embracing new beginnings with optimism

On a personal note, Skinner mentioned a small, touching interaction at an airport—not a profound experience but a simple one—where a fan said, "Love you, Benny," and it struck him deeply during an emotional time. "That's a beautiful moment," Barone noted, highlighting Skinner's caring community.

Looking back, Skinner feels "so unbelievably lucky" about their time together and being part, truly, a part, like family. Though their paths now diverge, Skinner humorously noted that one breakup rule was O'Connor couldn't date anyone younger than him. Classic Benny.

For those wanting more, you can catch every detail in that podcast episode, hearing Skinner's voice and words firsthand. As this chapter wraps up, Skinner shows us what grace looks like—navigating this deeply personal change with hope and thankfulness.

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Tags: Benito Skinner, Terrence O'Connor, LGBTQ+ relationships, amicable breakup, podcast talk